I think of you as my guru of family life, my teacher of ethics and secret smoking and I will miss your chuckles and chats. You always gave different perspectives on worries, thoughtful advice, loving hugs and quips to put a smile back on your face. Your life in so many fascinating countries inspired me, as did your teaching and most importantly the way you and Gill unequivically showed your love to your children and put them first. I will miss you yet so many things remind me of you, from swimming to sheeshas, that you will never be far away.